[ TIFFANY MARIE CHANDLER ]

I am the woman behind The Unbecoming Project, a space where women reclaim their voice, presence, and power through deep, embodied remembering.

I grew up in a highly religious environment that taught women to be silent and subservient. As a child, I found covert ways to express myself—through writing and music. But accessing my voice, coming home to my body, and standing fully in my truth has been a lifelong journey.

I know the tension of living between who you truly are on the inside and who you’ve been conditioned to be on the outside. Loosening the binds of self-censorship didn’t happen overnight—it took time, tenderness, and the good fortune of mentors who walked beside me through seasons of both growing pains and pleasures. Along the way, I’ve gathered tools, practices, and embodied insights to support other women navigating the same terrain.

My work is grounded in somatics, trauma resolution, and ancestral engagement. 

As a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, I’ve studied the intricate intelligence of the nervous system and how it shapes our sense of safety, belonging, and self-expression. With over 15 years of experience in Yoga, Indo-Tibetan Ritual, and Buddhist psychology, I blend ancient wisdom with modern embodiment practices, integrating body, mind, and soul into a wholeness you can feel.

What matters most to me is how we live out this work—how we show up fully in our relationships, take ownership of the spaces we occupy, and move through life with more ease and alignment. This kind of power isn’t forced—it’s rooted. It’s something we step into, not strive for.

Through years of study, practice, and my own healing process, I’ve developed a unique approach—one that centers the intelligence of the body, the wisdom of lineage, and the distinct expression only you can bring into the world.

The Unbecoming Project is the result of this work. A space where women come home to themselves, trust their voice, and lead with embodied sovereignty.

Because this is what the world needs.

And this is what I am here to do.

Current Professional Roles

Creator & Founder | The Unbecoming Project

Psychedelic & Somatic Integration | Mycology Psychology

Somatic Experiencing Assistant | Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute

Training & Certifications

Jivamukti Yoga School | 800-Hour Advanced Training

Nalanda Institute for Contemplative Science | 4-Year Program

Contemplative Studies Program | 2-Year Program

Somatic Experiencing Trauma Institute | 3-Year Training

Continuing Education

Pre & Perinatal Trauma | Integral Somatic Psychology | Raja Selvam

Activate Your Inner Jaguar | Kimberly Ann Johnson

Ancestral Lineage Healing | Daniel Foore

Embodied Anatomy | Bonnie Bainbridge Cohen

Healing Intergenerational Trauma | The Embody Lab | Peter Levine, PhD + Efu Nyaki

Healing Trauma Across Generations | Somatic Experiencing International | Peter Levine, PhD, Efu Nyaki, + Dr. Diane Poole Heller